Books I find helpful:
An Adult Child’s Guide to What’s Normal by John Friel, PhD and Linda Friel, MA
Taking Our Places by Norman Fischer
The Feeling Buddha by David Brazier
Everyday Zen: Love and Work by Joko Beck
A Path With Heart by Jack Kornfield
When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron
Co-Dependence: Healing the Human Condition by Charles L Whitfield
Letters to a Young Therapist by Mary Pipher
Buddha’s Brain by Rick Hanson
Parenting with Love and Logic (series) by Foster Cline and Jim Fay
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Zen Heart by Ezra Bayda
Waking Up to What You Do by Diane Eshin Rizzetto
On Becoming a Person by Carl Rogers
Introduction to Internal Family Systems by Richard Schwartz
Boundaries and Relationships by Charles L. Whitfield